the perfect person

After much contemplation, I’ve finally decided to blog. Thanks to this wonderful movie I watched today. I’ve finally decided to discuss about a few things that I thought was optimistic and insightful. It all started with this phrase that I heard in this particular movie. And this is how it goes,’ lies are like a cobweb'. Telling a lie is like spinning a cobweb. The more cobweb a spider spin, the harder it gets for its victims to escape. Just like spinning a cobweb, the more lies you tell, the more complicated it gets and soon, you’ll find yourself trapped in your own cobweb of lies. Which is why telling the truth is always the best. No matter how bad the truth may hurt, it won’t be as murderous as a lie. One other interesting point that this particular movie taught me is how to view the moon. Funny I never thought of this before. Take sometime to ponder about this. The moon symbolises something very important that we often fail to see. It tells us that even in the toughest of times, in the darkness of the night, there is always a chance for beauty to shine. When I heard that, I thought, I’d never look at the moon the same again. On last thing I learn which I thought is worth sharing is love. Love, as they say is a burning friendship. You’d find love in the best of friendships. And what is love without hurt? It’ll be like a day without night. An impossibility. So, to all my dearest friends out there, let me tell you that I love you guys to bits. You may not notice it but sometimes, your gentlest gestures means the world to me. Like giving me a call out of the blue. Or asking me out for dinner at the most random of moments. Or inviting me for your first concert. These are the things that you guys do that tell me how much you value our friendship and for that I’m forever grateful. Yes, we may have our disagreements but I realise that you may be the most ungrateful selfish bastard/bitch I’d ever known but I can never never hate you forever. I’d take sometime to forgive you. But eventually, I will. Friendship is complex and that is what makes it all the more beautiful. To all those who’ve I’ve hurt, I’m truly sorry. And to those who’ve hurt me, I’ve forgiven you. Let me tell you now that losing one friend is worst that having a million enemies. But to each is own. You chose to end something as delicate as an orchid on water. All I hope is that, you know what you’re doing. And to that someone, life may be difficult for us. The road may be bumpy. And we may never be together forever. But whatever happens to us in the future, you’d always have a place in my heart because you’ve taught me something very important. You’ve taught me to love myself. I guess I’d forever be on a journey in search for someone special. Someone whom I can bring out the best in and who can bring out the best in me. Impossible as it may seem, I believe that that someone is out there waiting for me.